Visionary Parenting

 For  visionary parenting  we need  develop  certain  skills  in  ourselves  which  is  important  for  becoming  a  visionary  parent. Most  of  the  time  parents  are  under  – confident  &  anxious  about  their  own  skills  &  capabilities  which  tend  to  affect  their  role  &  performance  as  parents.  Thus,  it  is  important  to  look  into  ourselves  first  before  we  turn  towards  our  children. Parenting  is  a  process  of  care  taking,  educating  from  which  you  help  your  child  grow  from  dependent  to  independent  adult. 

Parenting

Parenting  is  a  process,  which  entails  life  long  learning  &  improving  their  skills  on  the  part  of  parents. Contrary  to  most  parent’s  belief,  parenting  cannot  be  learnt  through  a  few  workshops  or  one  or  two  courses.  The  reason  is  simple  :  as  you  are  learning  different  parenting  behavior  in  your  life,  your  child  is  growing  all  the  time,  so  in  a  way  by  the  time  you  have  learnt  to  adopt  &  implement  your  skills  on  your  toddler,  he  has  grown  into  a  teenager  &  so  on  &  so  forth. 

Different stages of your child development

                         Therefore,  you  need  to  keep  pace  of  your  learning  with  the  different  stages  of  your  child  development  &  also  with  the  varying  situations.  Moreover,  as  your  family  expands  &  you  have  more  children,  the  dynamics  of  parenting  change.  Parenting  is  about  caretaking.  It’s  not  about  rituals,  settings  up,  time  tables, rules, or  a  set  of  do’s  &  dont’s.  It  about  connecting  to  child  &  the  important  thing  to  remember  is  that  the  more  care  you  give  to  your  child,  the  more  receptive  he  will  be  towards  you.  You  should  give  your  child  best  education  which  include  both  worldly  &  deen  –  so  that  your  children  can  give  the  best  productivity  for  the  pleasure  of  Allah (swt)  in  this  life &  the  hereafter.

 

( Allah knows  the best.  Jazak   Allah  Khair ) .   

 

   Written  By  :  Shaheen  Naaz

   Sources  :  ( www.islamiconlineuniversity.com ).

 

 

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