Sometimes it happens when a wife is in operation theater during labor and doctor comes and tells the husband that they can either save his wife or his unborn child. At that very moment only GOD or that husband knows what he goes through or feels when he has to choose between his blood, his own child and his wife.
But! Most of the time, it has been seen that no matter what kind of a husband he is, he asks them to save his wife. A husband is not as bad as we think or the society interprets. He also has a beating heart in his chest which just needs a shake sometimes.
If a wife is asked to imagine the same situation which a husband goes through and given with the option to save either her husband or her child, then what will she do?
Will she even be able to make a choice or not?
Only a man has the courage and morale to make such a tough decision. Though there are some men out there who are black hearted and blind folded but all men are not the same just like all fingers of the same hand are not alike.
So value your husband.
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Makes me think that the husband will most certainly choose the wife over baby because if wife dies how will he take care of the baby by himself, and he’ll also need his wife to take care of himself and cook for him. In both ways, saving the wife is the better choice for him
Salaam! In African wives don’t have value because most of the husbands believe they can easily replace a wife…
I guess this not in all countries of Africa. Maybe some countries… but in my country and around it, I see husbands trying the best to keep their wives happy. I agree there are some cultures also that don’t honour the women (wives). So it’s not all African wives…
Please describe on the value of wife too. Wives also deserves it.
What about those husbands who take babies from wives and send them back to her parent’s house. ? That is illegal in many countries but still practiced .
I totally agree with this. Where is the moral when kids taken away from mother n send her back to her parents in asian countries.