Filthiness Of Haram Relationship
Depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, fear of being caught, fear of being cheated, emotional & physical torture. That is all you have to welcome with your Haram relationship.
Your universe will shatter, those butterflies which he gave you will die, your tears will get dry, your heart will cease as you will face the emotional and physical challenges of a Haram relationship.
This Haram relationship will drag you to the verge of chaos!
I want to rescue you before he shatters your universe!
I feel so helpless for parents whose daughter left the house in the darkness of night to spend the rest of his life with a guy!
A part of me dies inside when I see the headlines ” A seven years old girl raped and killed last night ”
What should I suppose to do? Why I’m still sitting here & watching my little sister advancing towards chaos Every day?
let me tell you.
How he can shatter your universe?
-First of all, Haram relationship with him will destroy the bonding between you and your Creator, Allah SWT.
-This Haram relationship will weaken your loyalty and love for your parents and siblings.
-Rather than enjoying their company you will find ways to be alone so that you could contact Him or to spend time with Him.
-Moreover, if you’re having an intimate relationship with him then not only emotionally but he will ruin you physically as well.
Betraying your parents?
Your mother who carried you in her womb for nine months, who holds heaven beneath her feet, who introduced you to the world has no right to choose a man for you!
Your father who took care of your mother in all those nine months, who introduced the whole world to you, who is a door to heaven has no right to find a person for you!
Questions that will convenience you to review your Haram Relationship!
Have you ever sit back and imagined the heartache that your father would feel after knowing your interests ? or anxiety of your mother that she would have after knowing about your relationships?
How “His”chocolates, roses & perfumes let you forget those cotton candies, Balloons & hairpins that your father used to bring for you?
How His lusty touches let you forget those precious forehead kisses of your father?
How these candlelight dinners with Him let you forget those cheesiest bread & butter that your mom used to make for you in breakfast?
How this fancy Birthday party makes you forget those surprise cupcakes which your brother made for you on your last birthday?
Saying “Only Allah can judge me” may make us feel better, but it isn’t an excuse to sin!
Defending our cheap relationships by coating them with a “friend zone”, “brother zone ” or maybe “sister zone” Label will not destroy their reality at all.
Keep your relations ” Halal “.
Nothing is more filthy than being in a Haram relationship.
Shaitan always creates a fascinating world around us. We even forget that Allah SWT whose intensity of love is seventy times more than the love of our mother Has forbidden such relationships.
As Allah Tal’la Says ;
This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith – his work has become worthless, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers. [Al-Maidah: 5]
You’re A Gem!
You’re the little Queenie of your father and a princess of your brother!
You’re the reflection of your mom and a role model of your little younger sister!
You’re the future wife of a Man too!
Know your worth, how precious you’re!
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon Him) said ;
“No Man should be alone with a woman unless there is a Mahram with them “
(Bukhari Shareef 1862 and Muslim 1341 )
Hazrat Mohammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon Him) further said ;
“No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytaan is the third one present “
(Al Tirmidhi 1171)
He Should Approach Your Creator To Embrace your Presence Rather Than You!
If a guy claims to love you and He has a desire to have you then he should approach your parents rather than you. He should ask Allah SWT to embrace your presence. If He really loves you he will ask Allah for you twice, once in this world and once in Jannah.
Lust or Love?
This is Shaitaan who convinces you that lust is love but remember that your Allah SWT is many more times stronger than Shaitaan So asks Him for help. Ask Him to rescue you. Ask Him to wash away the filth of Haram relationship!
Standing on the verge of chaos and waiting for a miracle to happen?
Shaitan pushed you on a train whose destination is no less than hell. You’re advancing towards destruction and Allah SWT is taping on your shoulder and asking you to leave this deadly journey right now!
The game is not over yet!
Allah SWT is so beautiful. He is waiting for your little whispers of forgiveness. Call him and He will surely respond. Ask Him to ease your pain. Ask Him for forgiveness and mercy. Don’t feel shy while crying in front of Him and telling Him about all what you have done up till now though He is already well aware of facts. He will soothe you’re heart InShaAllah.
Allah Tal’la can Change you but the point is Do “you” really want to change yourself for His sake?
If yes, then you should ask Him. Ask him after every salah, ask him for Hadiya, ask him to soften your heart, ask him for more mercy, ask him to grab you more closer to him, ask him to evolve you and mould you according to His Will,ask him to change your priorities & “must have” He will definitely respond. He is “your” Creator, He will not let you live in desperation!
As Allah SWT says;
“As for the one who is conscious of Allah, He prepares for Him a way out and He provides for him from sources that he could never imagine”
Wash Away the filthiness Of Haram Relationship
Don’t keep him hanging on and waiting for the right time. No, not at all ! because this will make things more complicated. Cut the cord right now. Remove him from all your social accounts, delete his number, block him and take a breath of relief! Allah SWT says in the Holy Quran ;
“Verily the good deeds erase evil deeds”
So this is the right time to mend yourself.
-Turn to Allah and sit on your prayer mat until tears of repentance start rolling over your cheeks.
-Pray at night while others are sleeping.
-Spend time with your family.
-Make braids in your sister’s hair or bake some cupcakes for your brother.
-Go on a morning walk with your father or help your mother in the kitchen.
Halal relationship >>>Haram Relationship
Clear your all doubts today. Halal Love exists only you have to seek that! Let me quote some examples from Islamic History those will surely melt your Heart!
-The love of Khadija when she supported Hazrat Mohammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon Him ) when the whole world turned its back on him.
-The Love of Hazrat Mohammed (blessings and peace of Allah be upon Him ) for Khadija when He saw the necklace of Khadijah long after her death and tears of grief start rolling over His cheeks.
-The love between Hazrat Mohammed (blessings and peace of Allah be upon Him ) and Aisha when they drank from one cup and he watched where she placed her lips so that he could place his lips on the same area. He ate from a bone after she ate and placed his mouth where she had eaten. She also said that he placed morsels of food into her mouth and she would do the same.
-The Love of Ali ibn e Talib for Fatima Zahra when after her death Ali ibn e Talib said “A flower ( Fatimah Zahra ) nipped in the bud. It was from Jannat and it went to Jannat but has left its fragrance in my mind.
All Is Well That Ends Well
Allah forgives the faithful person who does sins but quickly repents and seeks forgiveness from Allah. As Allah SWT is the Most Forgiving and the Most Merciful so ask Him to wash away the filthiness of your Haram Relationship and to bless you with His Love, Hadiya and inner peace!DISCLAIMER: The articles and views posted on this blog are the opinions of individual authors only and as such may not reflect the opinions of Pious Couple staff, editors and readers. They are solely meant for educational purposes and not any illegal purpose. The authors/shuyookh are not responsible or liable for the intentional, reckless, or negligent actions of any individual. Any person who posts, quotes, cites, copies or otherwise relies on any article or comment associated in any way with Pious Couple blog bears sole responsibility for his or her actions, choices and words. While constructive criticism and meaningful discussions are welcome; abusive comments, name calling or intolerance towards other religions, race, sex, countries, etc., will not be entertained. Pious Couple reserves all rights to delete/edit any type of comment or discussion that is inappropriate Islamically, morally or otherwise.