We should as happier on girl’s birth as on boy’s birth. Either a girl or a boy, both are God’s invaluable benefaction and only God knows better what is right to us or yours; either the boy or a girl. Frown on girl’s birth; and being despondent doesn’t suits to momin(believer).
This is in-appreciation. I have my own four daughters. Alhamdulillah! This thing never came to my mind. For the world; that woman is oppressed who has only four daughters. Not only in the age of illiteracy; such examples according to my ineffectual thoughts; can be found today probably in many families who got upset on the birth of girls. When any woman ask me that how many children I have and feels sorry after getting answer, then we repartee to them that all thanks to GOD who blessed us with children.
When our fourth daughter born; our relative came to my house to see our daughter and when she saw our beloved daughter; having tears in her eyes she said: have patience, don’t lose heart and trust me I cried a lot when I listened about the birth of your daughter. We stunned and continuously looked at her.
We thought Ay ALLAH! This kind of stuff never stuck to our mind then what’s wrong with the people. Sometimes we respond angrily to such people. In Hadith! When a girl born ALLAH sends an angle to that house who comes and says: O’ people may GOD bless you; he takes baby girl into the shade of his wings and says with affection “This is a feeble life born by another feeble life; GOD will help that person till doomsday, who will look after this innocent girl. Hazrat Ayesha(R.A) says: Once a woman came to me along with her two daughters and she begged.
That time I had only one date, I put that date on her hand. She turned the date into two pieces and distributed them between her daughters. After that she got up and walked out. Meanwhile Hazrat Mohammad(P.B.U.H) came to my house; I told all the matter to him.
May Allah SWT bless all Muslim brothers and sisters with happiness in their family life!
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