Communicate with your spouse calmly
“You are the worst wife! How stupid I was to marry you!” Shouted Fahad
“Yeah, off course! You were the one who asked me for marriage and now it is all my fault? “replied Shahida
“Yeah, because I didn’t know about your stupid and annoying nature “ Fahad replied angrily.
“You know you are arguing just because I wasn’t able to take care of your documents while you only handled them carelessly all the time “Shahida replied.
“Just leave me alone for some time, I want to be by myself or else I will say something that I will regret afterwards! “replied Fahad and left the room.
“As you wish! “ Shahida replied angrily
The next morning, as soon as Shahida woke up, she saw Fahad standing in front of her.
“Talaq! Talaq! Talaq! Shouted Fahad and left the room.
Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
“Verily, Satan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: I have done this and this. Satan says: You have done nothing. Another one says: I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife. Satan embraces him and he says: You have done well.”
Don’t be by yourself:
When you are angry over any issue, please communicate with your spouse calmly. Everything can be solved by talking and listening to each other. Sometimes there are minor issues over which the husband and wife argue, and during the time of fight, they think as if those are major issues. After you discussed with your suppose you will find out the solution of what you have been argued, and the issues were not so worthy to be argued.
Whenever you think that you need some time by yourself then always be careful that it is a trick of Satan to be alone with you and fill your mind with negative ideas. When a person is alone he will never think of his own fault and his mind is full with negativity.
Remember that ALL problems can be solved by good communication between each other!
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5 thoughts on “Communicate with your spouse calmly”
I was divorced similar way my husband said 4 times when I was praying Asher as I told him let me finish my payer then we would talk of issues.
U said it all… why are some men so aggressive when u know u can’t manage a home…why did you get into it
So true…. Anger can destroy relationships and can drive people we truly love away from us.. may Allah help us from shaytan and help us to control our anger…
Jazak Allah khair
Ummm,u Said It All,but Some Men A Selfish.D Word Of Talaq Light In Tongue But Weighty,nd Majority Of Them Ulter It Wen They V Seen Another Woman.In Situaton Lk Ds,can It Still Refer To As An Devil Act.May Allah(SWA)be Our Guidian(amin)