Wife Has the Right to Sulk A Little Bit
My Dear! Did you ever notice that sometimes your child cries without a reason, so that you cuddle him bit more, or you yourself sulk in front of your best friend sometimes, to catch the attention of this dear one a little more? Or he says in happiness that let’s come eat outside, or says that it’s a holiday and I will let you roam outside on my new car, or says that lets agree with you and go out on the Friday night, or let us go out for three days. They don’t just leave you by merely criticizing, that why are you sitting angry and don’t talk, or say like
“don’t talk I don’t need your flattery”.
In fact, he attends you as per your expectation, asks for the reason of being angry, tries to let it go, and fulfills your wish. So mister if your better half does sulk or stays quiet sometimes, will you leave her as such by talking bitter? Does she belong like this to you? No! In fact, ask what does she wants? Finally, who is there to bear her tantrum?
Please gross! When she was a child and sniveled her parents used to leave everything to cuddle her. When she grew up a little more her best friends used to investigate the secret of her heart and pampered her. Now she has left every relation for only and only you. If she sulks sometimes to make you agree on something, or to draw a little more of your attention toward her or to increase the importance of herself in your heart and eyes, so please don’t mind.
- She has the right to do so this little bit. At last she tantrums in front of whom?
- She left her family so far away. Now she does not have father to tap her cheeks or mother to care for her hair, friends are also so far away. Whom she makes understand his importance?
- If she gets angry who will placate her?
- Whom she conquets on?
Now you are all for her. Our elder Hazrat Molana Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Sahib say:
“they (wives) have been given the right to sulk little bit by the religion”
Prophet Hazrat Muhammad Mustafa (saw) say:
“O Ayesha! When you are angry I understand that you are angry these days on me.
Hazrat Ayesha (ra) said:
O Prophet ﷺ, my parents be slaughtered on you, how you get know that I am angry”
He ﷺ said:
“when you get angry you say ‘Wa Rabbe Ibrahima’ (I swear on the Lord of Ibrahim A.S) and when you are not angry you say ‘Wa Rabbe Muhammad ﷺ’ (I swear on the lord of Muhammad )ﷺ
See he beard it in spite of the fact that He was a prophet ﷺ ,he did not make it unpleasant. Wife has the right for the elegance a little bit. Some people consider themselves as only the rulers, that I am a ruler or commander on my wife, and by making this verse a proof, they try maintain their rubbish reign.
“Arrejaal u qawwamoona ala nisa” (Sura Nisa, verse # 34)
But Mr. Shah Ibrar ul Haq Damat Barkatuham said:
No doubt you have the reign over the women, but only in case of religion. If she does work again religion like says you to bring T.V, VCR, demands for pictures or cinema there you reign and say that it won’t happen. But if she asks for drinking marinda then don’t say that your mood is off because of a fight with the boss in the office. Must fulfill their rights related to love. Don’t ignore even a little. It is sunnat to give wife a bite of food.
Your relation with the wife is ruling on one side and love on the other side, and she belongs you to be ruled-on, on one side and to be loved on the other side. Fulfill the rights of love. Your home life will be very peaceful and calm and above all Allah Almighty will be happy with this.
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