HOW TO GET YOUR SPOUSE ATTENTION!
For Brothers
Your wife is a precious gift, don’t take her for granted! Many men ignore the rights of their wife and ignore her needs. So hence I would like to share some advice to all men on how to keep their wife happy
- Make her feel secure.
- Greet her with Salam.
- Treat her in a gentle way and be generous to your wife.
- Call your wife with the best of names. Give her pleasant surprises and make her happy.
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- Preserve the tongue since some words take years to wipe out.
- Always avoid anger and have sabr.
- Think good of your wife and leave the past issues aside.
- Don’t dig the past and hurt their feelings.
- Remember everyone is not perfect. Everyone makes mistakes.
- Have the heat to forgive and forget.
- Show her that she is a wonderful wife in front of relatives and friends.
- Feed your wife with your hands, it’s a blessing.
- Respect her thinking and thoughts.
- Don’t leave your home to avoid an argument, make sure you talk and solve the problems.
- Encourage each other and show that you care for her health.
- Share your happiness and sadness with your wife.
- Don’t show your family problems with others.
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Every woman expects love, affection and kindness. When you treat her in the right way, you will be rewarded by Allah and you will be blessed and only good things will happen to you!
For Sisters
I would also like to share some advice to our sisters on how to keep their husband happy and seek attention!
- Listen actively when he expresses an opinion or a thought, pay attention. This shows that you respect him.
- Dress pleasantly and smell good always.
- Race the door when he comes home and give him a hug and smile.
- Prepare his favorite meal.
- Surprise him because he will be glad and also will appreciate you.
- Don’t lay out all your problems in your husband as soon as he walks in.
- Give him a little mental break.
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- Give your husband a nice message after an exhausting day at work.
- Compliment him in the things you know he is not so confident about. This will build his self esteem.
- Encourage him to do good deeds and share Islamic knowledge with each other so that you both can learn.
- If he is in a bad mood, give him some space. He will get over it in shaa Allah.
- If he is angry with you and starts yelling, let him yet it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Remember that your husband has feelings so take them for consideration.
- If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do, avoid it. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.
Avoid Excessive & Irrelevant Questioning with Spouse
- Learn to compromise. Don’t discuss important matters with him when he is tired or sleepy. Find the right time for right discussion.
- Appreciate him often.
- Ask Allah (SWT) to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and love between the two of you, everyday, ever prayer. Ask him to protect that bond from shaitan.
May Allah (SWT) bless our spouses and give us a happy life in this dunya and in aahirah as well. AMEEN 😇
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May Allah SWT bless all Muslim brothers and sisters with happiness in their family life!
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