Pick Myself Up
Sara had been waiting for this day and finally it had arrived. She was going to marry the man of her dreams. Sara had a wonderful Nikaah few months later she had her walimah. Everything was perfect and she felt so blessed. After the walimah Sara moved in with her in laws weeks later problems started. Her husband, the man she left everything for wasn’t even supporting her. She felt hurt and lonely. Sara turned to her parents for support, which obviously made matters worse because her in laws didn’t approve of her doing this.
Overtime things got from bad to worse, her husband was torn between his family and wife. He didn’t know what to do. One day her husband finally decided it was for the best if they moved out. He had to take his wife’s side even though he loved his family, she was his wife how could he let her suffer. They got their own place, bought a house. She thought now I can live my life peacefully.
But It wasn’t that easy, Sara went through tough trials during the first year of marriage to a point where she thought it was going to end! In laws kept interfering filling her husbands head against Sara. Her husband wasn’t supporting her and she felt her so lost and confused. Sara realised she had to make changes, she had to save her marriage herself.
Turned to Allah
A year later during the most difficult time of her life, Sara turned to Allah for help. She started becoming more regular in her prayers, she stopped the arguments over little little things with her husband, she knew she had to save her marriage so she gave in a lot.
Finally after 2 years she was starting to feel happy again her husband was more supportive towards her. They started praying together which brought them even closer. He changed into the same man she met, the man she married.
Today Sara has full support from her husband, the same man who once ignored her tears, today he can’t see her crying. They’ve have been blessed to go to Allah’s house together.
Marriage isn’t easy at all but we must compromise. If your wife cannot live with your family, you must provide separate accommodation for her as its her right in Islam!
Be good to your suppose, trust Allah swt and the everything will fall into place InshaAllah
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